Every now and again I have a friend that finds out about my blog. When they do, they always have a story to share. Some of these stories are worth sharing with you. This story comes from a good friend of mine that is currently going through a divorce and has found herself back in the dating pool. 

This is her internet dating encounter: 

I had been on the “Clover” dating app. I like that one as you can see who “likes” you and thats how I sorted through guys because I figured I had a chance already, right? Less work for me. 


So this really cute, but total fuck boy looking guy in Colorado Springs “likes” me. In his profile description it literally reads… “Im just here to satisfy my huge cock’s need for pleasure”. Like I said, fuck boy. So… I message him. “Huge cock huh?” And he responds with a yes and then we just kind of start talking from there. He has not once mentioned sex or hooking up or anything the rest of our messaging and texting. 

When he asks me to dinner, I figure why not? I drive down to Colorado Springs, and he looks so much better than his pictures! I was so happy because this could have gone either way. 

Dinner went well, movie and cuddles after went well, and he was not lying about the huge cock! 

So we go on several dates over the next few months. I start sleeping over and things are going well. In fact, we were planning a big birthday party in downtown Denver for his 21st. 

3 days before his birthday I get a text… “I got hit by a car last night .”At this point,  I’m freaking out… is he ok? What are the extent of his injuries… etc. He takes a day to respond (later found out because he was in surgery). His entire right leg was broken! The top half just nice clean break. The lower half is mush… muscle, tissue, everything dead! 


While visiting him, this extremely attractive girl comes in and she is like “how do you know Tyler?” And his mom kinda stepped in and changed the subject- at the time I was thanking her for that, now I realize why she actually did it. Apparently, this girl (also named Rachel) had hung out with him for a bit, but they never had sex because she is waiting for marriage. So after like 3 weeks of visiting him and her there most of the time, I asked him about her and he said they were just friends. So, I took him for his word. Since Tyler is in the Airforce, they had decided to ship him off to a military hospital in Texas for amputation and rehabilitation. 

He asks me to come visit, offers to pay for the whole trip. I remind him that I have a child and will need time to find day care and figure it out with Jason, whom I am still legally married to but have not been with for like a year. 

Ghosted. 

I never hear from him again. But, I do hear from the other Rachel. She finally contacts me and asked what was going on between him and I. I explain the situation and she proceeds to tell me that the night he was hit he asked for her to come visit and how he felt bad about how they ended things and wanted to have a relationship and live together. I cannot believe it! Some days I look back and im like, how did I miss that? How did I not notice that while her, him, and I were in the hospital having conversations and laughing that he was hoping and praying neither one of us spilled the beans! 

Let me tell you, this guy was very arrogant! I guess I can say it wasn’t a total loss though. The other Rachel and I are now good friends…

Submitted by Rachel R.